In addition to being a Gold Star Wife, Veteran’s Advocate and National Speaker, Barb is an award winning author of the powerful and shocking book (with 4.5 Star Amazon reviews), Front Toward Enemy and Co-Founder of American Snippets.
The more Barbara Allen fought to be normal, the harder life laughed at her. And just when she thought she’d got the last laugh, life turned against her in a tragedy that almost destroyed her.
Barbara was just 32 years old in 2005, when her world fell apart. Her husband had been murdered in Iraq at the hands of a fellow soldier – a traitor who would ultimately be acquitted at a military court martial even after he offered to plead guilty. Barbara was left to raise four young boys – just 6,5,3,and 1 year old at the time their father was killed.
She wanted to give up. She very nearly did. And yet, in the midst of the darkest moments, she always found some reason to take one more breath. Face one more day. Slowly, she found the strength to piece herself back together as she flew to Kuwait for the first military court proceeding against the soldier who’d killed her husband. She then spent years traveling thousands of miles to numerous other hearings leading up to the failed court martial. She learned to navigate the military’s criminal justice system. She earned a Masters degree and wrote a book about her ordeal and the grave miscarriage of justice in this case. She learned how it could all have been prevented, and she began advocating for change so it would never happen again. Today, Barbara is deeply entrenched in veterans advocacy and her own steadfast pursuit of justice for her husband.
Oh – and she also works hard to remain somewhat sane as she raises four boys all by herself. For kicks, she has acquired a menagerie of animals, from a little rabbit to a hefty-sized horse, with canines and kitties sprinkled about. She has experienced impressive emotional face-plants and vast arrays of challenges- some self-inflicted, others randomly encountered. And she has acquired the skills to not just overcome it all, but to enjoy the ride.
And this upper hand must be diligently maintained. Now, Barbara brings her life lessons to her audiences in keynote speeches and custom programs. She relates to her audiences’ lives and challenges, and teaches them how to become gladiators in their own life’s arena.Contact Barb Today